The Relationship ER
Urgent care for relationships in acute crisis.
Most couples wait too long. They wait until the wound has been open so long it has become the furniture — so familiar that neither person can fully see it anymore.
You chose differently. You showed up.
You come when something is acutely wrong. You leave with the tools to heal it.
Is This You?
You don't need to match every line. One is enough.
What Is The Relationship ER?
This is not couples therapy. It is not indefinite processing. It is targeted, time-limited, hard-hitting work for couples who need direct answers and concrete tools — fast.
You come when something is acutely wrong. You leave with a clear understanding of the actual wound, the tools to work with it, and specific commitments about how you move forward.
I built the Relationship ER because I kept watching couples arrive at the edge of something irreversible — not because they didn't care, but because they waited until the wound was so infected that healing required surgery instead of a bandage.
This program is the surgery. It's direct, it's structured, and it doesn't waste your time. Eleven sessions. Four stages. One clear outcome: you leave knowing exactly what you're working with and what you're willing to do about it.
How Does It Work?
THE FOUR STAGES:
Stage 1 · Triage. What brought you in. What the presenting wound actually is.
· Session 1 · Triage · Joint · 90 min
Stage 2 · Diagnosis. What is actually underneath it. Named plainly. Delivered to both people simultaneously.
· Session 2 · Individual · Partner One · 60 min
· Session 3 · Individual · Partner Two · 60 min
· Session 4 · The Diagnosis · Joint · 90 min
Stage 3 · Bridging the Gap. The real cleaning. Two joint sessions alternating with individual processing. Facts over narrative. The wound itself — stripped of the story built around it.
· Session 5 · Individual · Partner One · 60 min
· Session 6 · Individual · Partner Two · 60 min ·
· Session 7 · Bridging the Gap · Part One · Joint · 90 min
· Session 8 · Individual · Partner One · 60 min
· Session 9 · Individual · Partner Two · 60 min
· Session 10 · Bridging The Gap · Part Two · Joint · 90 min
Stage 4 · The Path Forward. The Early Warning System. The Behavioral Commitments. A clear plan for what comes next.
· Session 11 · The Path Forward · Closing Session · Joint · 90 min
What You're Actually Doing Here
Every session has a job. Every stage builds on the last. Nothing is filler. By the time you reach the closing session you will have named the actual wound — not the story wrapped around it — and built a concrete plan for what comes next. That plan is yours to keep.
The Investment
WHAT YOU LEAVE WITH:
(This is not a workbook you do at home and forget. This is a program with deliverables.)
· Program Companion — yours to keep throughout
· Early Warning System — your personal escalation protocol
· Behavioral Commitments — specific, observable, accountable
· SOS Card: your agreed phrase. One word that stops everything.
· Closing Letter — your options for what comes next
INVESTMENT:
$1,970 · Standard Rate
$1,777 · Pay in Full · Cash
$300 deposit to begin
*Payment plan available. Contact Sarah directly*
The Foundation Session ($150) is scheduled before program commitment. It is not included in the program investment.
The Foundation Session — Where It Starts
Before anyone commits to anything, we sit down for 90 minutes. I hear your story. You ask me anything. We decide together if this is the right fit — because it needs to be right for both of us.
The Foundation Session is $150 and is scheduled before program commitment. It is not included in the program investment.
If you're reading this, something in you already knows you need this. Trust that.